The Power of Healing from Narcissistic Abuse: Addressing the Root Cause

The entire experience of narcissistic abuse is about the core wounding of the most painful kind. These wounds reside in the unconscious from childhood and are never seen, heard, or felt. The “connection” with a narcissist feels unbreakable because it is about this unconscious wounding. The narcissist is a mirror to these unhealed parts of ourselves. 

We fall in love with ourselves – then the narcissist smashes us to pieces.

Over the years, I’ve learned that narcissistic abuse is much more than psychological and domestic abuse – it’s a psychic and spiritual phenomenon whereby these dark entities (narcissists) are energetically feeding off their targets, even when contact has seized.

Narcissists activate core wounds within people. This activation magnifies during the recovery process. An activation may feel like obsession, resentment, frustration, anger, envy, or any uncomfortable emotion that is felt somatically within the body.

The conscious mind believes the narcissist is causing you to feel triggered, but the real reason lies within the unconscious mind. The core wound is usually a painful belief or feeling needing to be identified and acknowledged for it to be deactivated.

When this happens, the energetic cord between you and the narcissist can be severed so you can reclaim your life force.

I tried this process when a narcissist was feeding off me and was able to deactivate the trigger:

1. Direct your attention away from the narcissist and fully tune into your body.
2. Ask what is this really about? why am I so highly triggered by the narcissist?
3. When fully present and want the answer, it will come to you intuitively.
4. Once identified, fully acknowledge that this is what it’s about and has nothing to do with the narcissist.

This exercise is for if you are past the initial aftershock stage and have processed some of the trauma, yet you are being driven insane from obsessive thoughts and cannot let go. It means there is still an energetic cord that needs to be severed.

The hard part of narcissistic abuse recovery is cutting the energetic cords between you and the narcissist. It is because you are not actually dealing with a human being, but it is an entity that you are trying to separate yourself from. 

These entities operate in 4D and can implant themselves into your energy field, causing psychic attacks and physical issues. You must keep your energy field clean to stop these attacks. Clean up all the internal wounds the narcissist (entity) feeds off.

When the cord is severed, your energy field will become clear. There is more peace, clarity, joy, and inspiration.

If you need help with going directly to the core wounding of narcissistic abuse and would like to book a one-on-one session, email me at [email protected].